For me, this work is all about being witness to and honoring the journey that you, your family, and relationship may be going through. Whether they are periods marked by conflict, confusion, hope, or joy, I believe that every moment we experience has something to teach us if we have the right mindset.
While my individual, familial, and couples work is all a bit different, they’re all united by one big thing: I help to break out of the pattern that everyone in the room seems to know but can’t figure out a way to change. I’ve helped families deal with parent-child conflict and estrangement, divorce and co-parenting concerns, and communication issues. I’ve guided couples preparing for marriage, healing from infidelity, and those doing the messy work of restructuring after divorce. I’m equipped to work with all sorts of individuals as well, but I have a soft spot for young men who are trying to figure out their place in the world. I’m here to challenge you to explore yourself and discover the best version of you, and offer support during times in life where that just doesn’t feel possible.
My approach integrates both “top-down” and “bottom-up” ways of working. We may use insight and reflection to understand the thoughts, beliefs, relationship patterns, and experiences that shape how you respond to the world. We may also work more directly with emotions, physical sensations, and the nervous system to develop greater capacity to tolerate and respond to difficult experiences. Therapy with me helps you to not just think differently, but to feel the world differently too. I draw from Internal Family Systems (IFS) and a variety of other therapeutic styles to tailor your therapy experience to what works best for you. My feminist and anti-racist background makes me sensitive to the power dynamics built into the therapeutic relationship, and it is deeply important to explore complex identities and dynamics to make our sessions as collaborative and liberatory as possible.
I offer both in person and telehealth services. GarrettM@bluebirdcounseling.com) or 651-661-2013.
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